INFERIORITY COMPLEX

Inferiority feelings are inborn and wired into us as a kind of step up, a challenge to do better. But in refusing to rise up to this challenge these feelings aggravate to inferiority complex; deep seated feelings of incompetence, inadequacy and low self-worth. CAUSES · Living Conditions: You may feel you are poor so you don’t feel fit with the happening groups. · Negative people: Moods like viruses are infectious, if people around you feel inferior you are likely to catch the bug. MANAGEMENT · When you feel inferior to someone walk up to the person and say ‘Hi, you look good’ · When you meet someone, maintain eye contact, shake their hand firmly and be warm & upbeat in your communication. · Avoid negative people. · Always know your value offering in any group you find yourself. While a shoemaker is an expert at shoemaking a bank manager is an expert at managing banks. You are a specialist in your own field · Relax, always stay calm, you have your own constraints in spite of what the media, advertising, pop psychology and movies tell you. · Finally always make the right choices, confront your feelings rather than bury your head in the sand in the hope that they will go away. Always remember that you are not competing with anyone but yourself. You have your strengths and weaknesses, focus on your strengths and build them to excellence. The best man is he that is assured in himself, regardless of physical conditions. Those who will like you will like you as you are and for those who will not………………. maybe they are just not worthy of your time. Always be yourself there are enough other people in the world and only but one special YOU.